16 5 / 2012
Anonymous asked: My best friend and I have known each other for about a year now. I'm someone who isn't used to close bonds, but I have to say that I don't know what I'd do without him. He lives overseas. I know that he has been flirting with me all the time since we met or at least it seems like it. I don't know how strongly his feelings for me really are and I really want to tell him how I feel. Since my prom is coming up, I was thinking about "asking" him to my prom and telling him how I feel that way. Help?
I say definitely, go for it! You’ll never know if you don’t try, and you may spend your whole life wondering “what if?” Don’t be shy to tell him how you feel, so that he knows you’re really sharing your true feelings and not just asking him to prom as friends. Good luck! You’ll be great!
28 4 / 2012
Anonymous asked: So me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. And we were pretty great together, nothing much to complicate about. We were just good. You know when girls just start an argument just for the hell of it? That's what I did with him last night & now over a night and a few hours to himself it's all just over because of that fight. Not necessarily, only that fight but because we KIND OF had trust issues. We broke up just right now, over this stupid argument or whatever. Anything to help out?
That really sucks and I’m very sorry. My best advice would be to try to talk it out as calmly and rationally as possible. Remember to say things like “I think that…” and “I feel that….” rather than “You did this….” If you want to get back together, you can apologize for starting the fight, tell him you were acting silly and you regret it. You will definitely have to address your trust issues though, as trust is one of the most important things in a successful relationship.
28 4 / 2012
Anonymous asked: I met this guy about a month ago and we have been dating since then, and we both really like each other a lot. Tonight he texted me goodnight and said "te quiero" and I do not really know how to take it. It didn't bother me, but I just don't really know what to think. We aren't even officially dating though.
“Te quiero” after a month is pretty crazy, and I’m not 100% how to deal with it either. It’s good that it didn’t bother you, but don’t say it back unless you really want to. If you’re really weirded out by it, you can talk to him about it. You can ask him why he thinks he loves you, as loving someone after a month is unlikely.You can say that you feel that might be taking things too fast, and you should slow down a bit. I guess my best advice would be to talk to him about it, rather than ignoring it
